I find it harder to trust, will I be able to trust again?

So I've been in a relationship wherein I been cheated on and lied to, I thought she loved me and I thought we loved each other, it turns out she only loved me for the moment, she was actually just waiting for her and her ex to get back together, I feel so used and useless, I don't know what to do, how can I trust again?

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So here's an Idea you have to understand that not every person you meet will be the same person as the last, not everyone does that and not everyone will take advantage of you. Trust is definitely important in any given aspect of a relationship, yes I know it sounds hard to do that after all the pain and hurt but you have to be vunerable and take risks if you actually want to find someone worth it.

2020.03.24 15:44

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